When I got home that night as my wife served me dinner, I grabbed his hand and said, I have something to tell you. she sat down and ate quietly. the note and saw the pain in his eyes. suddenly I did not know how to open my mouth. but I had to tell what he was thinking. “I want a divorce”. she did not seem upset by my words and I asked softly why? he told me; you are not a man !!!
That night we did not talk, and she cried. I knew she wanted to know what was happening to our marriage, but I could not answer. it happened that she had lost my heart to another woman named Juana. I no longer loved my wife, but he pitied! with a great sense of guilt, I wrote a divorce settlement agreement and she stayed with the house, the car and 30% of our business. she looked at the agreement and broke to pieces!
She spent 10 years of his life with me and were like strangers! I pitied him for all his lost time, energy but I could not change, I loved Juana. suddenly she began to scream and mourn and to vent. the idea of divorce was now clearer to me.
The next day I get home and I found typing on the table. Do not eat and went to sleep, I was so tired of having spent the day with Jane. when I woke up, my wife was still writing at the table. I did not care, I veer and continued sleeping. in the morning my wife introduced me to divorce conditions: she did not want anything from me but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. I asked the divorce for a month would have to live as if nothing and take regular. His reason was simple, our son had all the exams month and did not want to bother him with our broken marriage. I agreed, but she had another request me to remember when I loaded it into our room the day we were married. he asked me for that month, every day carry her the room to the exit door of the house!
I thought he was going crazy but for the party outside alone accept. I told Joan what my wife called me and Joan laughed aloud and said it was absurd that request, it did not matter that my wife trick used, would have to face him divorce ..
My wife and I had no physical contact since I expressed my intentions to divorce, so when I loaded the first day to the front door, we both feel bad. She is clapping for our son walked behind and saying; Dad is carrying my mom’s arms. His words gave me much pain. I walked the 10 meters with my wife in my arms. she closed her eyes and said softly, do not tell our son divorce. I pointed to his head a little upset, the lower when you reach the door, went to wait for transport to get to work.
I drive alone to work. the second day, we were both more relaxed, she leaned against my chest, I could feel the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that not long since the closely watched. I realized I was no longer so young, had few wrinkles, gray hairs! was notable damage our marriage! I thought for a moment and ask me, that was what I did?
On the fourth day I loaded, I felt privacy was returning between them. This was the woman who gave me 10 years of his life. in the fifth and sixth day, she continued to grow our privacy. I said nothing about Joan. every day was easier to charge my wife and month was running. I thought I was getting used to load and was therefore less noticeable load the weight of his body.
One morning she was looking to wear, had tried many dresses but not served him! complaining said; my dresses have been great! and it was there that I realized that she was very thin, and that was the reason that I did not feel the weight load. I suddenly realized that I had buried him much pain and bitterness. without realizing you touch your hair. our son entered the room and said; Dad came time you load a breast to the door.
For my son to see his father every day carry her mother to the door, he had become an essential part of his life. my wife hugged him, I turned my face was afraid to change my thinking about divorce. and hold my wife in my arms to the door, it felt like the first day of our wedding. she stroked my neck softly and naturally. I hugged her tightly, just like our wedding night. hugged and did not move! but I felt so livianita thin that made me sad. the last day just hugged her and wanted to move, I said, I did not realize that we had no intimacy, my son was for school. I drove to the office,
I left the car unlocked the door, went upstairs, joan opened the door, and said; excuse me, sorry, I will not divorce my wife. joan miro me, asked me if I had a fever? and I told my wife and I love, was routine and that we were bored, we do not value the details of our life since I started to charge the room to the door, I realized I should charge for the rest of our lives , to death! Joan began to mourn, slapped me and pulled the door. down the stairs, I ride in the car and get to the florist and order flowers for my wife.
She asked the florist; that I write in the card? I told him to put; I carry you every morning until death do us !!! I got home with flowers in hands and smile, I ran up the stairs and when I entered, I found my wife dead !!!!
My wife was battling cancer disease and I was so busy with Juana, who did not realize. my wife knew he was dying and so I asked for a month’s notice before the divorce, that our child does not remain a bad memory of divorce, so I did not have a negative reaction !!! at least you would be my son, in his eyes, that his father was a husband who loved his wife.
These small details is what matters in a relationship, not the house, the car, the money in the bank. create an environment that you think will lead to happiness, but really, is not it !!!!
Try to keep your happy marriage, share this story on your wall, you may be saving a marriage. throughout the history of failure are the same, they give up when they are about to enter to success. we know what we have until we lose it.